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Andy & Julia’s RideWithUs bikers wedding

To bike or not to bike, that was the question, whether to wed at a local registry office in Middlesbrough or go to some far away land. Slavica had the answer, "Why not have a biking wedding" "Can we do that?" was my partners reply. "Of course you can." That was the first step to a wedding in Austria on a motorcycle tour with "Ride with Us". Slavica and Petar are the proud owners and guides of a motorcycle tour company that do many tours in Europe and as far as Slovenia and Croatia. Julia (my partner at the time) and I had been on the Slovenia tour, two up on a Triumph Trophy 1200 and as a first major tour, both thoroughly enjoyed.

When we returned from that tour, Julia decided she wanted her own bike and was pursued to go and do her Direct Access course. While doing her course, we bought an AJS 125 cruiser for her to practice on while waiting for her test date. Suffice to say she passed on her second attempt with only three marks against her and then sold the 125 on E-bay and then her car to buy her first proper bike, a Dragstar 650 Classic. The reason behind buying cruisers is that Julia was not confident when stopping and was only happy with both feet planted flat on the road. On the road she was quietly confident and obeyed all speed limits at all times and was even courteous to car drivers that cut her up. This changed when we bought her a Suzuki RF600 and she was a changed woman. Meanwhile I plodded along on my Yamaha FJR1300 and rode tail gunner. Her confidence grew as did her road craft. So much so, that we decided to do a tour on our own.

Luxemburg was the destination and after many talks with Petar, about what we needed by law and route planning, we set off. First roundabout in France was a nightmare, we went round it twice to make sure we were headed in the right direction. As the kilometres passed by, we both gained in confidence and set about enjoying the scenery and people. Camping was the choice of accommodation, not the biker friendly and high standard of hotels that come with a Ride With Us tour. We endured rain, fog and amount of sunshine in varying quantities and enjoyed every minute of the experience. On our return to England it was necessary to get to grips with the vast amounts of paperwork that were needed for the wedding in Austria. All documents had to be originals and if not, had to be certified by a solicitor, who charged for the privilege. Birth certificates, previous wedding and decree absolutes, passports, utility bills ,driving licences etc etc all had to be sent to the Foreign and Commonwealth Office, then upon receipt of them back, had to be sent for translation and eventually to The Hague, before being sent to the chosen Registry office in Kernautal before the wedding could take place. Not forgetting that all paperwork is in double, mine and then Julia’s, it’s a miracle that none was returned with a question. We were advised on a web site, "Austria Direct", that you should plan or start to plan at least 6 months before the wedding date and by Austrian law you must not book earlier than five months prior. We emailed the office in Kernautal 5 months prior and were waiting for a confirmation to say that there were no problems with that date. None came and as the 22nd August became closer Julia was beginning to panic a little, as was I. Petar came to the rescue and gave us the name of the owners of the hotel we would be staying in and a contact number. The hotel was duly rung and a very helpful receptionist gave me the telephone number of the office. Five messages left, and no reply. Panic set in. " What if....?" questions arose. "What if they don’t have a slot open for us." "What if the registrar is on holiday?" and this continued for weeks.

While all this was happening, Julia had her Suzuki stolen. The irritating thing was that it was seen being ridden around by a known bike thief and being hammered into the ground. When the boys in blue eventually found it, it was a right off. Fairing ripped to pieces, bars bent and levers snapped off. The little toe rags had even removed the com system from under the seat. The insurance company ( Highway ) were absolutely brilliant and had the claim sorted and payment done in double quick time. Now it was off to buy a bike for Julia to ride to Austria on. We looked on the internet and bike mags and decided to go and look at a Bandit or similar. We were sidetracked by an advert on eBay, he was selling a Honda Deauville for 1400 notes. After the obligatory test ride, Julia nodded her approvement and the bike was bought after heavy negotiations by Julia. To my surprise she rode the bike home, a trip of about 40 miles, as if she had been glued to it for years.

We knew time was getting nearer to the wedding as we received the route plans for the Black Forest and Austria tour from Slavica and noted that the 22nd August ( which was a rest day on the planner ) said in large letters "Andy and Julia’s wedding". Again this reminder prompted us to phone the Registry Office in Kernautal and again, after leaving messages, we were not informed that all was ok. To our rescue came a call from John at Austria Direct, asking if all was going to plan. When I told him that we were worried as we had not received any notification from Austria, he told us to forget our English way of thinking as the Austrian way is so laid back, it was horizontal. He explained by saying that in England we expect different things to happen. We expect confirmations, we expect to receive a receipt etc , but in Austria , when you book a date for a function, then that’s agreed and you don’t get any notification either way. This was a great relief and we felt now that all was ok and the tension eased a little. There were still nerves as we knew that the big day was now weeks away and not months.

Julia got more riding time as we went out for days out on the bikes and the new Julia was riding well. It was then the 15th August, three days before we were due at The Euro tunnel to meet up with the gang. We spent the next three nights in Youth Hostels as we made our way down to Canterbury so as to have a short ride to the Tunnel on the morning of the 18th. At 5.30 we pulled in to meet up with the Ride with Us group and found them without too much problem. As riders of the tour arrived over the next 60 minutes we made ourselves known, most of the time to be greeted with the words, "you must be Andy and Julia, the wedding couple". There was a good mix of bikes, Hondas, Yamahas, BMWs and a Triumph Tiger with riders of varying ability, some were seasoned tourers and a few were on their first ever organised tour, Michael and his dad, Colin, spring to mind as they were at first nervous but soon mellowed after the first few hundred kilometres. Julia slipped in behind Petar, with Slavica as his pillion, and followed at a respectable pace. After the second petrol stop, Petar said that Julia was a fine rider and could find her own place anywhere in the pack. Big, big compliment from Petar.

As the main group settled into a good riding rhythm, the seasoned riders went their own way to meet up at the pre booked hotels in the evening. Julia, on a few occasions, opened the throttle to shoot off down the road and thoroughly enjoyed the wide open roads of France. It was on one of these occasions in Germany that Julia shot off down the road after mistaking one of Slavicas hand signals as "35 kilometres to next stop." I realised the mistake and shot off after her, reasoning that Slavicas hand signal was "your indicator is still on". When I caught up and pulled in for a smoke, we programmed the sat nav in for the hotel and eventually met up with Petar, who, after arriving at the hotel and making sure that all the other riders were booked in, had headed off in the direction he thought we might be coming from. His thought was a good one , as we met about 10 to 12 kilometres from the hotel. Later that evening when we were sat at the table, for a brilliant meal, after Julia’s escapade she was nicknamed "The Runaway Bride" and it stuck. Julia thought that it was at this time she was accepted in the group as "one of the boys".

The next couple of days riding, and all had settled in, we got to see some great scenery, planned and unplanned as we headed to Austria. One of the planned stops was the Triberg waterfalls, it was wet and it was a magnificent sight. Many photographs and snacks later, everyone met up to get through the next stage and to have lunch in a scenic stopover point. At any point during a days riding, Julia would shoot off up the road, after making sure with Petar and Slavica that it was ok. She had learned her lesson the hard way. When we arrived at the hotel, on the eve of our wedding day, we nipped down to the Registry Office in the town to find the building and parking so that we could arrive in the morning without any hassle. That night was different to all the others as many of the group were a little quieter than before and I was beginning to realise that in the following 24 hours I would be wed to Julia. Before setting off on this tour Julia had bought a dress she would be wearing but when we were alone in the hotel room she decided that we would have the service with us wearing our bike gear. Brilliant idea, but a shame, as she looked great in it. I did not sleep well that night as thousands of thoughts were running through my head.

We woke very early on the big day to bright sunshine streaming through the window, and went down for breakfast to find most of the group were already having their eats. Inside I was feeling elated and scared at the same time, wondering how the day was going to go. We set off heading to the town of Kaunertal and the registry office. Julia was unusually quiet as she sat astride the bike as we set off in convey. As we rode through the brilliant scenery I got to thinking that the roads in Austria were fantastic for riding a bike slowly or at speed. We sailed into town and went straight to the car park and had photographs taken as a group before we went into the office. Before the wedding we had to finalise the plans by showing passports and signing the final pieces of paper that were required by law. It was at this point we met Herr Eiterer, the gentleman that was to perform the ceremony. He pointed out that there was not a translator available and would it be ok to perform the service in "school English". Julia and I agreed that it would not be a problem and the final nail was nearly in the coffin. Before we went into the reception area a couple of the guys took me to one side and said very sternly that there was still time to get to the bike and make a quick getaway. Ha Ha. The service was extremely calm and Herr Eiterer looked as scared as we were, yet he was able to convey the spirit of marriage in a story that was based on the seasons. He began by saying that all that was around us affected how we are and how life would carry on through the hard times of the Fall and Winter. That the Spring and Summer was a sign of prosperity and fruitful times and that these times carry us through the hard times. He was very eloquent and his "school English" was better than many people I knew. He congratulated us and also stated that as we had waded through all the paperwork that was required to marry in Austria, then we would have no problems that we could not solve in the future. Vows were made and rings exchanged he then pronounced us man and wife and I was given the option to "kiss the bride" which to me was the final act of the ceremony. As it turned out we had then to sign the wedding certificates and the register, in triplicate, to finalise it all. Petar and Slavica then signed as our witnesses and then it was out to the car park for photos. Herr Eiterer gave us permission to ride the bikes onto the plaza in front of the Registry Office and everyone gathered for the photos. We spoke to Herr Eiterer to thank him for a beautiful service and congratulated him on his English. It was at this point he told us that it was his first wedding in English and that we were the first English biking couple, with an entourage of bikers, he had married in his career. Petar then told us that we were going for a ride along the valley a local glacier, a ride of around 30 kilometres. Julia threw her leg across the Deauville and slipped into the line of bikers as we set off, and as usual I was riding shotgun behind. As we crept along the valley floor I was aware that it was getting significantely colder but the road was ideal for riding and the scenery, to die for. Rock faces to the left and open land and sometimes water to the right and every time we passed the locals, they waved. After about 10 kilometres the road started to rise and we got involved with some great twisties, I think Julia got some real riding experience here. Some of the lads went up the road to enjoy the fun while the others just plodded along enjoying the fullness of the valley. Upon reaching the glacier it was time to put on more clothing as it was so cold yet the air was crisp and clean. Everyone spent time doing their own thing and after lunch it was time to return to the hotel. The ride back was a little faster and I began to enjoy the downhill sections and the hairpin bends that were thrown at me every couple of hundred metres, it was fun but not serious, just pure enjoyment.

After arriving at the hotel, the first job was showers and getting ready for the evening meal. If this meal was going to be as tasty and filling as previous meals on the tour, then we were in for a treat. As we filed into the dining area we stopped in our tracks. The tables had been decorated with more candles, lace and table linen in red. Slavica had planned a wedding meal for us weeks before we arrived. My thanks go to the hotel staff and chefs as it was superb. We had champagne and speeches were limited to a few words as time passed. When we left the tables to retire to the lounge area for a few more drinks we were again surprised to be presented with a wedding cake truly decorated with a motorcycle, it looked very eatable and much of it was dispatched within 10 minutes. Julia decided that the other motorcycle tour that was in the hotel should also benefit and I was sent to pass around a large platter of cake to the other bikers. Later in the evening the hotel owner and his wife had us all have a drink of schnapps, and thanked us for choosing his hotel for this great occasion. It was at this point his manager appeared and presented all of the group with black baseball caps embroidered with "Biker Friendly" logos, Everyone retired to bed that night knowing we had to be up and away for 8 in the morning and heading for the next destination with some brilliant roads to be had.

The tour was organised / guided and assistance with wedding preparations provided by RideWithUs.